Chief's BULLog: Sense of Community
Tuesday, January 29th, 2008It should be clear to most of you who follow the New York Red Bulls that there is very spirited fan base, which I will refer to as our Red Bull “community” throughout the remainder of this installment. This is an important choice of words, because it signifies something much deeper than just a cluster of people in The Corral (Section 115) or in Section 101, or any other section of Giants Stadium.
Dictionary.com offers nine definitions for the noun, “community.” While all nine are somewhat applicable for my purposes here, I will focus on #3:
“a social, religious, occupational, or other group sharing common characteristics or interests and perceived or perceiving itself as distinct in some respect from the larger society within which it exists (usually prec. by the): the business community; the community of scholars.”
Indeed, this interpretation appeals to me most. As New York Red Bull Fans and as fans of the Beautiful Game, no matter when or where it is played, we represent a truly unique and diverse community around the world. Perhaps you might recall individual “citizens” (coincidentally, a nickname for RBN season-ticket holders) within your childhood community who were always there to lend a hand. Whether it be to dig a hole, help you move, or shovel a driveway (I grew up in NH), there was a prevalent sense of belonging and arguably obligation. We belonged to the same community, and we were obligated to maintaining its integrity by acting in a manner becoming of a good contributing citizen.
I should relent on philosophy for now, but I have been painfully reminded of the higher cause of RBN, which is reflected in our organization’s Statements of Purpose.
You may recall ~ 2years ago that RBN played an instrumental role, along with Sportfriends Soccer Club in Wayne, NJ, to raise ~ $26,000 for the Phil Diffley Family Trust. Phil suffered from ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis or Lou Gehrig’s disease) and passed away Friday, January 25. I played soccer with Phil at Sportfriends when he was healthy, and when his health was declining. I even saw him play in last game for Sportfriends. I never once heard him complain, and he always played hard (and well), and was quick with encouragement on and off the pitch.
My last memories of Phil were during the SocCURE Marathon Tournament at Sportfriends, where he coached his team from the sidelines in his wheelchair. He was surrounded by family, friends, his players. He was exactly where he wanted to be that day and night.
Phil’s presence that night also reminded me of another Sportfriends citizen and the coach of the Sportfriends women’s team, Franz Reiss, who succumbed to the same disease a little more than 2 years ago, if I am not mistaken. Even in his final days, Franz would still make it to the sideline to support the ladies on the pitch. Frankly, the details are not as important as remembering who these men were and what they represented.
I miss them both, as does the rest of the Sportfriends community. Phil’s recent passing causes me to reflect on matters closer to RBN’s collective heart.
Every July 30, RBN remembers how it lost one of its own, Gennaro (Jerry) Russo, to myelofibrosis. It came on so suddenly and progressed so rapidly. We could hardly fathom the loss. RBN pulled together for the Jerry and the Russo Family and donated blood. We continue to support each other today. Going forward, RBN raises funds every season to be donated to the USO in Jerry’s name. It was a request of the Russo Family, and we responded accordingly.
I am proud to be an RBN National, and other Nationals and Diplomats should take the same pride in knowing that you belong to a unique, strong, and thriving community. We give much of ourselves unselfishly in many different ways. This spirit, combined with thousands of other spirited communities worldwide, comprise the indomitable global soccer community.
As we prepare for another MLS Cup campaign and supporting US Soccer in World Cup qualifying for 2010, please remember that we are many individuals who are lifted by acting as one. Every time we lose any citizen, we lose a little bit of ourselves . . .
Peace Be With You,
Chief Toro